《Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman》是Bryan Adams演唱的一首摇滚风格的抒情歌曲，曾作为1995年约翰尼·德普主演的《唐璜》的片尾曲。

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　这首名曲，自八十年代中期唱红，历久不衰，不知成为多少有情人的＇情侣之歌＇；不知让多少女人夜不成寐；又不知让多少男人反躬自省．没有名言警句，没有花腔激越，简简单单的道理，一把吉他独伴，却令人闻之心弦颤鸣，泪眼朦胧．用你的心去听吧，因为它是心的声音．

　　To really love a woman

To understandher

　　You gotta know her deep inside 　　

Hear everythought - see every dream 　

　　N'give her wings - when she wants to fly

　　Then when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms，Ya knowya really love a woman

你想真真爱一个女人吗

你真的想要了解她吗

那就去了解她的内心吧

去倾听她的每一个念头，去感受她的每一个梦想

在她想飞的时候，给他安上美丽的翅膀

当你发现你无助地依偎在她的臂膀时，你便会知道，你真真地爱上了一个女人
　　

　　你注意到要‘倾听’她的每一个念头，‘目睹’她的每一个梦想了吗？你知道为什么不是Listen而是hear，不是watch而是see？因为你不能用耳朵去听，用眼睛去看，而是要用你的心去感受，去共鸣！

　　你在爱一个女人的时候，知道她会梦想自由美丽的鸟儿一样无拘无束地飞翔，而又盼望有坚实的大地可以栖息吗？你知道你应该让她尽情展翅而又可以你为大树坚石避风雨修羽毛吗？如果你知道，那么你就会感到你真真地爱一个女人，你的女人．

　　那么，无论是当你爱她爱到失魂落魄（Can't help to fall inlove），或者是伤痕累累疲惫不堪地依偎在她柔润的臂膀，你就会知道，你真真地爱一个女人．有意思的是，这里的'helpless'可以做多种解释，但无论是爱之迷茫还是养伤栖息，温暖可靠的女人臂膀，都是你的真爱体现。

　　歌曲没有停留在简单的感受，而是进一步的深入唱出如何让你的女人知道，感受到你的爱：

　　You love a woman you tell her that she's really wanted

　　You love a woman you tell her that she's the one

　　She needs somebody to tell her that it's gonna lastforever

　　（She needs somebody to tell her that you'll always betogether）

　　So tell me have you ever really - really really ever loved awoman?

当你爱一个女人，你要告诉她你是如何的渴望着她

当你爱一个女人，你要告诉她她是这世上是你心上的唯一

因为她希望有人对她说，你对他的爱海枯石烂

（因为她希望有人对她说，你对他的爱天地共存

那么，告诉我，你爱过，真真爱过一个女人吗？

　　爱是要年年讲，月月讲，天天讲的．爱不是一次性的投入，爱不能一劳永逸．女人的耳根子最软．女人的爱发自她的听觉中枢，来，告诉我，你真真爱过一个女人吗？你说过你爱她爱的死去活来吗？你热恋时说过的话，在她成为你的黄脸婆时你还能发自内心地对她说吗？你知道一句＇我爱你＇胜过一打无言的红玫瑰吗？

　　爱，决不会停留在视听的感受，爱是两个人的融合：

To really love awoman

Let herhold you - till ya know how she needs to be touched

You've gottabreathe her - really taste her

Till you canfeel her in your blood

N'whenyou can see your unborn children in her eyes

Ya know ya really lovea woman

　　真真爱一个女人

让她拥着你－直到你懂得她是如何希望你的爱抚

　 你要去呼吸她的芬芳－真真品尝她的美丽

直到你感到她在你血液里的流淌

　　而当你从她美丽的瞳仁中读到你们爱情的结晶

你便知道你真真在爱一个女人

　 至此，曲调由涓涓倾诉而转高扬激越的感情抒发：

　　You got to give her some faith -hold her tight

A littletenderness - gotta treat her right

She will bethere for you, taking good care of you

Ya really gottalove your woman
　　
　　...

　　给她以信念吧－紧紧地拥抱她

　 向她展示你的柔情－你要善待你的女人

　 她会永远在你身边，给你以关怀和爱

　 你要真正地爱你的女人

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To really love a woman
To understand her, you gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought, see every dream
And give her wings, when she wants to fly
Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless, in her arms
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman, you tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman, you tell her that she's the one
Cause she needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really, really really ever loved a woman?

To really love a woman
Let her hold you, til ya know how she needs to be touched
You've gotta breathe her, really taste her
Til you can feel her in your blood
And when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman, you tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman, you tell her that she's the one
Cause she needs somebody, to tell her that you'll always be together
So tell me have you ever really, really really ever loved a woman?

You got to give her some faith, hold her tight
A little tenderness, gotta treat her right
She will be there for you, takin' good care of you
You really gotta love your woman

And when you find yourself lyin' helpless, in her arms
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman, you tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman, you tell her that she's the one
Cause she needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really, really really ever loved a woman?
So tell me have you ever really, really really ever loved a woman?
Just tell me have you ever really, really really ever loved a woman?